I don’t have what I want or I have what I don’t want.It’s not wrong to want something unless it is outright sin. It’s not wrong to want our pain to stop. However, God wants to satisfy, not gratify.
“Many of us are looking for an escape from our situation—that’s gratification, momentary relief—but God wants to satisfy us.” ~Tony EvansGod’s not asking us to always like our circumstances. The Apostle Paul certainly didn’t like being imprisoned, flogged…! But he aligned his desires with God’s and trusted Him for his needs.
Delight yourself in the LORD and [then] he will give you the desires of your heart. (Ps 37:4)
…Who satisfies your desires with good things. (Ps 103:5)The world was not designed to fulfill these God-given longings, only God can. God may use circumstances and others to meet them, but He is the Orchestrator. If we look to the world, we will be disappointed—guaranteed. Consider this diagram:
Solid lines indicate strong interaction/reliance; dashed lines indicate weak ones.
The person in figure #1 relies on people and things, rather than the Lord, to meet her needs and wants. Not only will her needs be incompletely and/or inconsistently met, she will have less ability to fulfill the needs of others. The result? Insecurity, discontentment; God is not pleased.But if we look to our Provider for satisfaction (figure #2), we will feel secure. He alone is able to always come through. The stronger our bond and dependence upon God:
- The greater our contentment.
- The less we’ll rely on things or others to fill those holes.
- The greater will be our ability to fulfill the needs of others.
We need to come to the place where we truly believe that.Typically, that belief comes from experiencing hardship. Think about it. How can you know God will meet your need unless you are in need?
We also need to come to the place where we believe that God is all we need.When I lost my husband to cancer a huge hole was left in my soul. As I looked back a year later I discovered Jesus was enough, really more than enough. I was not only able to survive but thrive. Let Jesus prove that He will indeed fill you with whatever you need—and that it’ll be more than enough. Then you’ll be able to live by faith—contentedly.
My soul will be satisfied as with the richest of foods; with singing lips my mouth will praise you. (Ps 63:5)
~~~~~Learning to be Content Part 4 is continued on 12/12/18 Adapted from: From the Vertical to the Horizontal, (He’s So Worth It Ministries, 2014), 15-16. THE HOLY BIBLE: NEW INTERNATIONAL VERSION®. NIV®. Copyright © 1973, 1978, 1984 by Biblica. All rights reserved worldwide.