Christians, young or old in the faith, want to grow and become more like Christ. But how do you do that? One key to this growth process is allowing the Lord to show you specifically where you fall short.
We all fall short, but not necessarily in the same place.
We need the Lord to tell us what we need to change if we’re going to change. This requires self-evaluation and most people don’t want to make the effort for several reasons…
~For one, it takes time which always seems to be in short supply. Most are too impatient to go through the process.
~We also don’t like looking at the ugliness of our sin. The weight of guilt is too oppressive. Instead of admitting our sin, we beat ourselves up or fear God’s condemnation.
~Soul-searching can also be painful, as we remember hurts done to us or by us.
~Others think it’s just not that important; taking God’s mercy and understanding for granted. You and I are never to rationalize our sin away because “God understands.” All sin is a serious offense against our holy God.
They each boil down to pride.
Instead of avoiding our issues, remaining in a state of guilt or defeat, or justifying our sins we should confess, accept God’s forgiveness, and repent.
Where I believe many of us mess up is thinking repentance is telling the Lord, “I’ll never do that again. Help me.” And that is where we stop. However…
True repentance includes trying to determine why you sinned, i.e. self-examination guided by the Holy Spirit.
Search me, O God, and know my heart; test me and know my anxious thoughts. See if there is any offensive way in me…. (Ps 139:23-24)*
The Lord already knows why. It is we who are in the dark.
The original word here for search means to dig deep. King David is asking God to bring his deep-lying parts—his inner-most being—to the surface so he can see where he isn’t in line with God.
As commentator, McLaren, states:
“Pestilence breathes in the unventilated, unlighted, uncleansed recesses of a neglected nature. It is only on condition of the light of God’s convincing Spirit being cast into every part of our being that we shall be able to overcome and annihilate the creeping swarms of microscopic sins that are there…”
Proper self-evaluation takes a willing, open, humble and yielded heart. “Whatever You show me, Lord, I will address and change with Your help.” That’s in essence what David means with the last part of verse 24: “lead me in the way everlasting.”
The Lord doesn’t reveal sin in us to beat us up, but in order that we would deal with the problem and change, thereby becoming more like His beautiful Son.
Stop excusing your sin because you are “human.” Start being honest with yourself and God. He will be gentle, kind and truthful. Let the Holy Spirit get to the core.
Let Him root out those sinful attitudes and patterns of thinking and therefore patterns of behavior that are displeasing to your holy God. He knows exactly how to do it, what specific truths will set you free, and will then empower you to implement them. What an awesome God we have!
Don’t you see how wonderfully kind, tolerant, and patient God is with you? Does this mean nothing to you? Can’t you see that his kindness is intended to turn you from your sin? (Rom 2:4)**
Get my free guide on how to actually do this self-evaluation process here.
My friends, go do a little soul searching with the Lord. It’ll be worth the effort because—He’s so worth it!
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